We are a global community with members from over 20 countries. Widows find locals through tailored groups, through other members’ profiles, and through discussion. Our members also find it invaluable to be able to converse with widows from anywhere in the world, where meeting them may have been impossible due to their geographical limitations. New members are joining everyday! We do not disclose specific numbers but your membership is lifelong and you can regularly check for new joins. 

Absolutely. We are proud to have such equal parts men and women in our community.  At least 50% of our members are men who were widowed. Men find the Widow’s Fire Community a very supportive, open environment. Oftentimes, in their day to day lives, men have found it hard to discuss intimacy following the death of a partner. Widow’s Fire changes that for men with tons of open discussion, the ability to meet new friends, and even a potential partner. We’ve had men get engaged and marry a new love, all through our trusted community. Men also greatly value our online sessions where they can hear from other men and share stories. Bottom line: Widow’s Fire is not just for women.

We charge a membership fee to join. Once you’re in, you get access to all members, 1:1 chats, member keyword search, group discussions on a wide range of topics, helpful resources and even virtual meetings. As we continue to grow, more offerings will be available. your fee helps Widow’s Fire continue to offer a one of a kind, trusted, exclusive experience for widows and widowers.

There is no guarantee of finding love anywhere in this world. Everyone who joins is here because they lost someone important to them. Some of our members have gone on to find new life partners and others have built long-lasting friendships. Some rely on the community for feedback and advice as they continue to date offline. The possibilities are endless and if you feel the fire, you open yourself up to those possibilities by joining the community.

Do you feel the fire? Do you get excited when you think about being intimate with a partner again? Do you long for touch, companionship, discussion, or even sex? Then the Widow’s Fire is a place you can go where individuals who are experiencing the same feelings and thoughts as you can come together. It’s a safe, exclusive, vetted place where Wids can feel open to sharing their experiences, connect with others, and go through this together. Other dating sites for widows preach casual hookups or grief counselling. Our site is an enriched experience that goes beyond any one objective. Our satisfaction rate is in the high 90s. Read our testimonials here.

We are excited to offer regular group video calls.  We typically run a call once a week and we change the time and day of the week to have options for the different time zones and schedules of our community. We cover a variety of topics and always allow for open discussion and connection – with or without a drink involved! We’d love to welcome you into a session.