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We’ve created a 1-pager to help you communicate what your Widow’s Fire is to someone important to you.
Widow’s Fire 101
What is Widow’s Fire?
Widow’s Fire is the burning desire for intimacy following the death of a partner or spouse. It impacts many widows and widowers, although not every widowed person will experience it. There is little data on the quantitative figures as the topic is often misunderstood and sometimes seen as taboo.
Why does it happen?
Unfortunately, there are little studies on Widow’s Fire. As one of the largest Widow’s Fire Communities in the world, our work has uncovered certain insights around it. If you were in a strong relationship, it’s natural to want to recreate that again. The loss of one’s partner leaves an incredible void of intimacy and the jolt into being single can often trigger the Fire.
Who feels the Widow’s Fire?
Regardless of age, gender, or sexual preference, Widow’s Fire can hit anyone at any time during their grief. Some widowed individuals feel it even before their partner has passed, in the event of an illness or prolonged struggle. Others feel it shortly after their spouse passes, or even years later.
What are the symptoms?
For those who feel the “fire” there is an uncontrollable urge for physical and emotional connection with another person. Some people experience a deep longing unlike anything they’ve ever felt. It can feel very lonely and make one question their true desires. Many widowed people are taken completely off guard by their Widow’s Fire.
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